Saturday, July 16, 2011

Completely lost ..advicee :)?

heyy, so im lost in terms of my relationship. im going to be 22 in exactly a month, my boyfriend is 20, going to be 21 in a few months. we have been together 18 months. overall, we have a good relationship. he works part-time, doesn't go to school - he blames that on his parents because they didn't mail his tuition. me, on the other hand, pay for my own tuition (partial out of my pocket, the rest student loan) and i take 16 credits, and work occasionally. i used to work about 15 - 40 hours a week but due to this sucky economy, (my company downsized) i work here and there and also babysit. mind you, i have done everything in my power to find a job, but thank god, im not suffering totally. now, my boyf complains how horrible his job is, and supposedly he has problems with evryone. well, he goes on an interview, gets A new job .. mind you this job is further than his current job, so it adds to his commute. yesterday, he gave his resignation letter to his job .. and today, he finds out the new job is only going to give him 7.5 - 10 HOURS A WEEK ! when he was working 24 - 28 HOURS A WEEK at his other job. he claims the lady didnt tell him this on the interview .. but i believe it was a misunderstanding ON HIS PART. im literally sick to my stomach. i know money isnt everything .. but it seems this isnt even fazing him. im young and i like to be treated like a princess, which he usually always took me out .. . and i would be totally understanding if he was out sick and he didnt have money (i would be at his side waiting on him hand and foot if that was the case) or if he company closed or his hours got decreased due to budget cuts, i would be completely supportive, but he wanted to work at this place so bad --- its upsetting to me because he made a joke about "i wonder how long its going to take me to finally see their morgue." .. ughh . any advice on how i should feel ?

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